LOSS

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CHAPTER 1 

LOSS

In life you will meet amazing people, some will fascinate you but unfortunately some of them will only be for a determined period of time. 
People will disappoint you but, is it your fault? For you to be disappointed, you had to have expectations at some point. Did they really elude you, or did you create in your mind a persona that didn’t exist?
It can be your fault…you can be in a stage of your life that someone isn’t. People have different journeys, want different things, that's why it is essential to be honest to save anyone from a loss.

A loss can be ruthless, it can change someone forever, the realisation that you have no control of your life is a lesson that can haunt you.
You let someone in, invested your greatest gift (time),you cared for that person, trusted, made plans and shared secrets. All of a sudden everything crumbles and you come to the realisation how fragile you have become for someone. 
This person that you cared for was capable of stealing the best part of your day, maybe even of your life, worse of all is if everything you had was a dream with her/him and they have stolen that too.

How can you move on? 
Forgive and accept…you don’t want to become bitter, no one wants to be around someone that is constantly dragging them down. 
Don’t be that person. 
Imagine you’re carrying a bag of potatoes. Those potatoes are everything that you have left from someone you cared for, beautiful memories, promises and goals. If you always hold on to that bag it will never get easy. At some point your body will feel the damage from the weight and most importantly the more you hold onto it the stronger the rotten smell will get. DROP THE BAG!

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